I work with guys from all spectrum’s of life. Guys come to me from the community. They arrive at my doorstep having read the tons of content now available online about meeting women.

There is only one thing that happens when you allow yourself to keep on reading every blog-post, forum, and B.S. theory that’s out there. When you do so, you actually get farther and farther away from your ultimate goal. Ultimately, every guy out there wants to attract women to him naturally and have choice in his life.

Guys tend to collect all kinds of information because they feel safer sitting at home reading about meeting women rather than actually going out and BEING the man that attracts women. Guys who get caught up in reading too much online start to believe that they need each and every technique available before heading out the door.

Guys, I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again: Get out of your head. Stop thinking that techniques are your saving grace. They are nothing but a crutch that keep you stuck at home, lonely and frustrated surfing the internet for hours.

What you need to do is start working on yourself. Spend less time focusing on women and more time focusing on the man you want to be—the man who naturally attracts women to him because he’s sexually desirable.

So how do you become a sexually desirable man? It begins with your mindset, and from there it trickles down to your body language, presence, and eye contact. When you change your mindset, you change your belief and how you view the world. Ironically, you also change how the world views you.

At the end of the day, it comes down to the question: What do you want?

If you want to learn a thousand lines and routines—and maybe have mediocre success with women, then keep on surfing the internet. But if you want to have fun, be happy, enjoy your life, and attract more women than you can possibly handle into your life, then start focusing on yourself and what women really want: a sexually desirable guy, not a guy full of lines routines and techniques.

I’ve been a ladies’ man all my life. I never sat at home and posted endlessly my theories. I was too busy with an abundance of beautiful women, having fun and enjoying my life.

Get out of your head. Get out of your house. Get into a new reality by doing the work you need to do to become a sexually desirable man.

If you want to be the kind of guy who goes out to impress women on the street, talking a lot with lots of lines and always having the perfect thing to say, then I’m not your guy.

If you want to be the guy who approaches a hundred women a day with clever phrases, goofy jokes, and opinion openers, then I’m not your guy.

You’ve probably noticed that I don’t spend a lot of time on the internet. I don’t have a thousand posts at various “pickup” forums and blogs.

Unlike many other instructors, I was never a computer geek who posts endlessly

Guys tell me they want to f**k a lot of women. But it’s not about that. It’s about being happy with your life. F**king hundreds of women will not bring you happiness.