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What a difference…

coryskyy — Wed, 07 Oct 2009 16:56:01 +0000

There are many different steps to becoming truly great with women but there is one very important one that is often overlooked: having what I call ‘the edge.’ For years my friends have been fun, social guys that took good care of themselves and looked good, but they still did not have choice with women like I did. It didn’t matter where we went I always got the hot girl.

Why? Because I had the edge and they didn’t.

Having the edge or having ‘it’ is about much more than being good looking, it is about having that ‘look’ that is followed up with a strong inner belief or feeling which stems from being extremely comfortable with your sexuality. This comes across as an attractive underlying energy to the women you desire.

Let’s get right to it. Here are a couple things you can do to begin to develop your own personal edge.

Time in the Mirror

Start spending a bunch of time in front of the mirror, and work on developing a strong, comfortable relationship with yourself. When you look into the mirror stay there until you genuinely like what you see, and if you don’t find it the first few times don’t give up, this is normal and you must keep going back. Don’t just look at yourself, really check yourself out and be proud of what you see; tilt your head back and put a cocky smirk on your face and feel the feelings as if you were the sexiest man on the planet. If you are by yourself I recommend that you stand in front of a mirror naked, this is yet just another way that will help you to be extremely comfortable with your entire body. (HINT) That gorgeous blonde in the bar that gets all of the guy’s heads turning does this daily.

Take pictures of yourself

Look at pictures of other guys that have ‘it.’ Find guys that have similar features as you (eyes, facial features, type of hair etc… but it doesn’t have to be exact), look at their facial expressions and how they are posing in different pictures. Some good examples are pictures of Mathew McConaughey, George Clooney, Brad Pitt, Sean Connery and look at how they pose. All of these guys have that ‘edge’ about them which makes them extremely attractive to women, you can also check out my flicker page. http://www.flickr.com/photos/ coryskyylifestyles/

This is kind of like looking through a magazine and finding a hair cut that you like and taking it to your barber and having him mimic it. The difference is that you are doing the work yourself for yourself.

A warning, if you mimic someone else look exactly it is going to look ridiculous, so find what works for you -you are your own individual and all you are doing is bringing out the best in you and showing it off. It may take you several hours sitting in front of the mirror or camera but trust me it is worth it. It is really the difference of having ‘it’ or not.

(HINT) have you ever seen that super hot blonde’s online profile where she looks perfect in every picture? It’s because she has spent a lot of time taking pictures of herself to find the angles that make her look great.

So what does it look like to go from an average Joe to having ‘IT?’ Here is a before and after picture of a personal client of mine. The pictures speak for themselves.

Before and After

Notice the feeling behind his looks –not just the externals.

If you’d like to literally transform yourself into a man who naturally attracts beautiful women into his life with very little effort when you walk out your front door and a man who has all of the skills you need to have ultimate choice with the women that you desire, then I recommend you seriously think about attending one of my live events.

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Women love fat guys

coryskyy — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 20:38:25 +0000

Question: Do you think my weight is preventing me from being great with women?
Answer: YES-Absolutely

Ok now fill in the blank with whatever hang-ups you personal may have.
Do you think my (______) is preventing me from being great with women?
Examples…being shy, being timid, being fat, my looks, my nationality, being too skinny, bad acne, too old, being broke, etc…

Let me explain why the answer is yes; it’s not because girls do not like bigger guys (you see beautiful women with bigger guys all the time) it is because you don’t like the way you are, you are not completely happy with what you see in the mirror and in return you feel that others are not happy with what they see when they look at you.
Remember that the only difference between someone that is great with women and someone that is not is they think differently and do different things, all the other hang-ups are just excuses made purely by you.

How do I change this?

Well you have two choices:
1. Change- You do something about your weight “or whatever hang-ups you may have.” Make it a personal goal to lose your weight and get into great shape; find a product to take care of your acne etc… Working out builds confidence, seeing actual changes in your physical body builds confidence, even something as simple as a tan.
2. Accept- You accept the fact that you’re a bigger guy and you learn to love yourself unconditionally the way you are. Focus on building your inner confidence and believing that you are a sexy mother f***ker and you deserve the best.

These are self limiting beliefs and if you really want to get over them than you will do both, steps one and two. “Accept it and change it”
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If you put me in your physical body, the way you are right now I would still have great choice with women no matter how big you are tall, short, old, skinny etc… Ok, so take the way you are currently and put yourself into my physical body. It’s the same thing; whatever is currently preventing you from being great with women now is in me and I will have the same results as you are currently having.

Note: If I was in your body and saw that I was overweight I would do something about it, I would get my a** into the gym and do everything I had to do to get into better shape. I would not do it for women but for myself because I love myself unconditionally and want to take care of myself which in return attracts others into my life that enjoys taking care of themselves as well. (beautiful women)

Having choice begins with accepting that your not perfect and understanding that is ok; being able to let go of any and/or all hang-ups that you have. Having choice with women is a lifestyle that every guy has always dreamed of and dreams of daily and for the first time ever this lifestyle is actually being taught and can be yours.

A Smart Man Wants Both

coryskyy — Fri, 24 Jul 2009 17:01:27 +0000

When guys ask me about being great with women, the first question I always ask is: “What do you want?”

Many tell me they want one girlfriend only because they just can’t create the picture of themselves dating three women at the same time. It’s so far out of their reality.

But the truth is that the possibilities are endless. You can have what you want, but in order to get it you have to be open to it. You have to believe that it’s possible… and that it’s possible for you.

Want to date three to four women without lying nor using manipulation? It’s done all the time by guys who live that reality. Yes, you can be upfront and honest to all of them. Yes, many will walk away. Yes, many will be okay with it.

It’s also okay to date just one girl if that’s what you really want. If your friends are always going on about their conquests and pressure you to get “laid” more often, then tell them to get lost. Be who you are.

The only danger that I see often with this situation is that the guy gets too attached. It’s human nature for a guy to want to be around this beautiful girl at all times and know what she’s doing every minute of every day.

When this happens, the guy usually begins to display insecurities and a possessiveness that kill the relationship. The girl leaves him and he’s left scratching his head, all lonely and hurt wondering what he did wrong.

I recommend to guys that in the beginning, you date two to three girls. Yes, maybe you like one girl more than the other two. But since you have the other two, you’re not going to get obsessed with one.

When you start to think “I wonder what she’s doing”, your ship begins to sink. This is the first sign of neediness growing in your mind. This is the point where you begin to self-sabotage yourself in the relationship.

More than anything, a woman wants a man with a life—a guy who isn’t going to smother her. That’s why most women out there really are open to your dating other women (at least in the beginning until her emotions get the better of her). They’ll never admit it, but women find a man who has other women in his life attractive.

It means he has a life and that he’s a challenge for her to win over. Which is why it’s best to be a “ladies’ man” even if you just want one girlfriend. At least until she’s proven herself to you for a very long time. (And I’m talking years here. Months don’t cut it.)

Being a “ladies’ man” is nothing but having choice in your life. You don’t have to be a “player”. A player lies and manipulates whereas a ladies’ man is honest and direct. A player says, “You’re the only girl in my life” but a ladies’ man says, “I’m not ready to settle down and I’m seeing a couple of girls”.

Believe it or not, when you say this it makes women want you even more. Be honest to yourself and be honest to the women in your life. Even if it’s bold or comes across as rude or arrogant, don’t shy away from it.

And please… don’t make the mistake of locking yourself into a relationship too soon. On the other hand, don’t be a player. Find a balance between the two. Be honest with yourself and others. Follow these simple steps and women will automatically gravitate into your life.