lot of woman look at me like a sexual object, all of them want to fuck me.. there are sitting in a bar with their boyfrends or girlfrends and all of time they look at me.. in one word I become sexy. That happens me all the times but they don't try to apporoach me. when I apporoach to her she wants 100% of mine interaction.
Yesterday one women was look at me like sexual object, she was bitting her lips and look at me 10-15 seconds, and when I come to her and start to talk with her she was shy, and she doesn't want to respond..
One other thing.. women wich i am interrested in they don't respond on me, other girls that I don't like are interrested in me and they want to be with me all the time..
sorry of my bad english...
Cory Skyy Lifestyles Forum » Mindset
attraction (is) isn't choise
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Posted 6 months ago #
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Yea, cause this doesnt teach you HOW to interact with women. I just observe something,state it, looking right into her eyes(you have to do that), and get her talking about herself, I might say sometihng silly or whatever. I don't really lke to hit on them upfront, seems to kind of scare them. You still WANT them to like you(in the back of your mind) they can read off of that.. Whether you are the sexiest mother fucker in the world, if you WANT them to like you when you come around her, she will sense it. Just don't care, dont want her to have to likie you, cause then, you will not act so smooth. This might explain why the girls you DONT like are into you, they are into your non neediness and you dont give a shit what happens with them. Apply that to the ones you like. Im not saying BE GAY, just dont care if she likes you.
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In fact, cory mentions something in his podcast saying 'just SHUT UP and listen'
Posted 6 months ago # -
""I don't really lke to hit on them upfront, seems to kind of scare them.""
Coolman, maybe because it shows them you only value their looks and you aren't selctive. I must say, "direct" approach so to speak works mostly on inmature girls with IQ below zero :P
Anyway very good post, I agrre with everything :)./Pawel
Posted 6 months ago # -
I have experienced the exact same problem, women check me out all the time. I had some extremely cute girls and their boyfriends walk past me the other day and one said "oh my god that guy was so hot".
Same deal, when I talk to some women they sort of speak quietly and act shy. When I interact with a woman whom i don't even want to fuck etc. the interaction seems smoother and less awkward energy laden. It's quite confusing to me, cory says that he "basically wants to fuck her" and that works for him...
I noticed something the other day though... I saw a girl i used to know from college... very cute, I decided just to find out how she is, I wasn't thinking of fucking her at all and the interaction went great.
Damn I don't know I thought I had it worked out but now i feel a little confused, one one instance we are supposed to show our sexual attraction and desire to fuck her, on the other instance we don't want to fuck her and we show genuine interest in her and what's been happening in her life.
Posted 6 months ago # -
yea direct works for shit with me lol
Posted 6 months ago # -
I think you should show interest in your eyes when you are talking to a girl. If she's interested, you will have a connection. That connection isn't necessarily just thinking I want to fuck you. And you're not consciously just telling yourself ahh I wanna fuck this girl. It's on an emotional level. If you watch the movie "The Notebook" you'll see what a real connection is like. You must be in the moment though and just gazed into her left eye. And yes, do listen to what she has to say. The connection is emotional, like love at first sight, it's when you look into her eye and subconsciously you develop this desire for one another which makes you want to fuck her.
"Same deal, when I talk to some women they sort of speak quietly and act shy."
Because you are bringing out the butterflies in them. That's when you lead the situation and they are yours for the taking.
Posted 6 months ago #
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