Players are great liars but I don't want to lie to girls. How to deal with cock-blocks and mother hens without lying?
Cory Skyy Lifestyles Forum » Mindset
Lying to Girls or being honest?
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Posted 6 months ago #
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Uh, I thought you were on a break, or is 2 days up? Lol.
Posted 6 months ago # -
You don't lie to get a piece of cake do you? :p It's just not that important.
Posted 6 months ago # -
what cory talks about is being is a ladies man.
Ladies men and players do both get girls but a ladies man never lies. He's just being honest and sexual.
So you don't have to lie to get girls. Check out cory's videos. I think the one was called players vs. bad boys on which he elaborates that.take care
Posted 6 months ago # -
Awesome question JohnPUA,
Remembering a year back, and two years back, etc., I got cock blocked by cock blocks all the time (it was my thing)... guess what, it almost never happens anymore! (because I've worked on making myself a better person and succeeded) I was only cock blocked once over the past year and the cute girl I was interacting with told her cock blocking girlfriend to go away (the cock block pouted because I stole her cute girlfriend away).
Now-a-days I will usually only approach a girl after eye contact has been established, and only if the girl is open to an interaction (I can tell if she's open through how she reacts and the feeling I get during eye contact). I can usually tell if a girl doesn't want to be approached, so if this is the case, I don't approach her. I don't approach girls who are actively avoiding eye contact. The bottom line is that I only interact with girls who want to interact with me.
There are always exceptions to any rule... I do talk to some girls where there has not been eye contact, and some of them brighten up when I talk to them.
I'm now 100% honest with girls. This means that I don't tell lies. It does not mean that I tell them they are beautiful (because I don't) - at one time, needing to say this to a girl is what I would have considered being honest.
Posted 6 months ago # -
Thanks Spike. I only talk to those women that love my eye-contact and sometimes I can do some small talk if I want to.
Posted 6 months ago # -
I'll take this as an opportunity to state one of my related experiences.
It was when I was talking to a pretty girl while we are walking along a pedestrian overpass. I told her honestly that I am afraid of heights and as of that moment, my heartbeat is rapidly increasing, my breaths are becoming shallow etc. She then told me that she is also afraid of heights and also having the same experience. I then added that I am afraid of water when I was a kid and she is also like that. We had a fun conversation and I took a few steps back because as much as possible I don't want to get involved with a girl who has a boyfriend.
After that, I think that the fake DHVs are shit. I believe women can see through those lies and by lying, my fake personality shows up instead of the real one.
Posted 5 months ago # -
NIce guys are great liars, they hide theirs sexual interest to a woman, pretend that they are not sexualy interested in her. Some could say "I don
Posted 5 months ago # -
"Some could say "I don
Posted 5 months ago # -
Ryan- with atrractive body language you could be direct and spark atrraction in girls, verbaly on nonverbaly, it doesnt mater. When I was younger I was like you, I had fun socializing with everybody, girls likes me and so on. But right now I dont do that. I think the only way to make sure that girl genuinely like me is by being direct as hell, you see many women's play games with guys, I meet some time ago one girl who had 5 boyfriends !!! Every guy from this 5 thinks that he is the one. Girls arent as inicent as you may think they are and with direct honest appraoch anly dishonest girl wil reject you (I dont like this world reject because she is giving you the favor).
Posted 5 months ago # -
Direct, indirect, it doesn't matter. You can have girls approach you and get you into bed, or you can be the one to do the work and get them into bed.
However, I would say that if you're able to have girls approach and hit on you, then you can easily transition to going direct.
Being real deal indifferent isn't hiding the truth. Real indifference is real indifference (I don't mean unfriendly or aloof). You simply see sex as desireable as dessert. it's nice, but you don't ever need it. To become indifferent you have to fill yourself with the main course first, and that comes from within yourself, doing affirmations, or whatever.
Posted 5 months ago #
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