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1. Morrison
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   Usualy when I go to the disco and meet a girl it's very easy for me because I don't give a fuck.

   But two days ago I met a girl at the place where I'm working, I just started speaking with her, shit before I didn't use to do. She is pretty and nice. I get abit nervous when I'm chatting with her, I guess it's because I want to fuck her and deep inside my old self I still get this feeling I don't diserve her. I also time to time still notice some pua stuff going around my head. I know it's kind of needy and bullshit. I'm not sure where to start. Should I just continue speaking with her and eventualy ask her out or not give a shit?

   Posted 6 months ago #

2. Ryan
   Member

   I went through this recently too with a girl in class. I actually stopped talking to her and still haven't talked to her much lately. If I did talk to her it was just small talk like hey how you doing. I got really nervous around her one day when I didn't have a strong mindset and asked her out. I was really nervous. Even though she really seemed interested, she flaked, at least I thought. So I kept our conversations light and short because I wasn't comfortable anymore and didn't want to show her that so I played uninterested. Now that my mindset is so much stronger, I'm naturally feeling the urge to go talk to her because I no longer see her as a prize. We lock eyes a lot more now and it's getting pretty hot.

   So in my opinion, if you don't feel confident and comfortable enough, don't force yourself to do it. Fortunately, you are in the same situation, she works with you so you guys will have time together anyways. However, that is just my opinion. I nor anyone else here can tell you what is right for you. If it's something you really feel that you want at this very moment, do whatever is best for you.

   Posted 6 months ago #

3. Morrison
   Member

   Actualy my confidence went abit down lately. I started that new job, many hours of work and I just feel tired. I don't even feel like speaking with anyone. Besides I'm bossed all day long and I don't like that shit.

   That girl I think she is interested in me. Today she saw me and she started messing with me but I didn't pay much attention and it seems like she lost some interest. Oh well I just don't feel top notch. This weekend I need to bomb some pussy.

   Actualy when you work so many hours the free time you have you just want to live it like it's your last second of life. I want to go out every single night after work and have sex.

   Posted 6 months ago #

4. Ryan
   Member

   She didn't loose interest. She's assuming you lost interest and is going crazy about it. This is the biggest pain in the ass to deal with when it comes to women since we are so used to women just throwing us away. But it's true. Realistically they are probably in their heads feeling let down. As soon as you show interest again, watch the smile on her face. With this mindset women honestly don't give a shit about anything other than how much love and sex you're going to give to her.

   Posted 6 months ago #

5. Morrison
   Member

   I like speaking with her I feel a connection like I know her for along time. But I learned from my mistakes and I'm not going to get caught by her. So I rather just lay back and relax even though I feel like fucking her hard.

   Ryan what your saying is 100% true. Today I saw her, I started speaking with her and she smiled alot. I never enjoyed speaking to much so I run out of conversation fast lol. It's funny because I don't give a shit if people don't like it or not. She just kept pushing conversation. Asking what I was I going to do in the weekend etc.. And she found a reason to start touching my arm. In the disco etc... I'm certain about the women who are interested me now in certain conditions I'm not so confident.

   Posted 6 months ago #

6. Ryan
   Member

   Yeah don't worry about it man. I just came to the conclusion women want to fuck me regardless of how I act. Talking and smiling just makes them feel more at ease with you.

   Posted 6 months ago #

7. Pawel86
   Member

   Morrison, you are doing great man, dont pursue her :), if he starts pushing conversation again you can accuse her of hitting on you :P, something like

   Posted 6 months ago #

8. Morrison
   Member

   Lol the thing is I'm not doing nothing, I'm not even trying. I just don't qualify myself, I don't feel like I need to chat alot with her, shit I don't do nothing. I'm not even thinking about this shit, I just feel like I don't need to prove myself. If she likes me or doesn't the difference is zero.

   The only thing I do is listen to her when she is chatting, make a long eye contact and I do this soft smile. I like looking into her eyes, some how women seem to find this attractive not sure why.

   Yeah I still get nervous around her or excited the two feeling are quite the same. But I'm in this mentality that I don't need to prove myself and that I want to get to know her better.

   I feel this connection with her wich is quite hard to explain and I just know sooner or later something is going to happen.

   Posted 6 months ago #

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