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I finally got "it"

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  • Started 6 months ago by Aschenisto
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  1. Aschenisto
    Member

    I finally got it. This is not yet what you think it is but you need to have this kind of "it" It will help you, you will believe in yourself and good things will happend sooner or later.

    About four days ago I did my mirror and written affirmations. I have been doing them over a year. I got some success and some set back. Sometimes I was so frustrated that I felt like crap and sometimes It felt like "I have it, I have now figured it all out"

    But four days ago I felt something amazing. It is not a feeling. Feelings are like music. They will come and then leave. Just let go bad music. It is understanding. When I was going to sleep, I just understood: "Yeah I am incredibly sexy man." I felt it. I can feel it now. So it is not just a feeling that will disappear.

    Some good things have happened. I got lot of eye-contact and a woman approached me. But I do not care about "results" I am sexy man no matter what, now I can feel it. I will believe in myself.

    Posted 6 months ago #

  2. Ryan
    Member

    Awesome man! Glad to hear everything is finally snapping for you!

    Posted 6 months ago #

  3. Reece
    Member

    Dude that is fucking radically awesome.

    So what changed? Why did the affirmations which you have been doing for an entire year with hit and miss results only just now have chaned you belief system to the fullest extent?

    Posted 6 months ago #

  4. Matty
    Member

    Sounds more like a 'knowing'.

    Like you say, feelings come and go, we have to get to the point where we know we have it, regardless of how you feel or what has happened that day. Like you just know you have it, the same as you know the sun will come up tomorrow morning

    Posted 6 months ago #

  5. obliviboy
    Member

    This is not "it", sorry to disappoint you.

    Posted 6 months ago #

  6. Morrison
    Member

    "It" whatever is, in my opinion is being happy about yourself and living your life free.
    Seeking approval from others is what makes you mostly unhappy. Actualy when you stop caring about other people opinion is when you start enjoying life because you begin doing stuff the way you want.

    I got to the same conclusion using this affirmation "I'm a confident man because I do what I want and I don't give a fuck about what others think about me". I usualy do that in the mirror because I don't like to write so much.

    So it doesnt matter if I get eye contact from a girl or not because I don't care and I know I'm the best motherfucker alive :)

    Posted 6 months ago #

  7. Ryan
    Member

    Good point Morrison! You should always believe you have "IT" no matter what.

    Posted 6 months ago #

  8. BadBoyChris
    Member

    Guys this is my last post because I have been here long enough I think, probably too long. I admit I have been feeling great recently and had more eye contact and attraction from women. Yet I will go out one night feeking good and I feel women aren't interested in me, I feel fake and that having "IT" is purely just an act and people see right through it. So I start to question myself and the negetive self talk comes back. The feeling is subconscious as well so it's not that easy to ignore.

    Amyway I wish you guys the best of luck.

    Bye

    Posted 6 months ago #

  9. MooMoo
    Member

    So you are giving up on everything?

    Posted 6 months ago #

  10. Runaway
    Member

    No he's stopping coming to the forums. Which, I think, is a good thing if they're stopping you from going out and doing shit. Bye Chris, good luck :]

    @Aschenisto: sweet! making progress dude ;)

    Posted 6 months ago #

  11. Aschenisto
    Member

    Reece, I think those affirmations have helped me a lot: "I am sexy motherfucker" "I am sexually desirable man" "I am sexy and confidence man." Yes, I have been doing my affirmations over a year and last weekend I just got this "understanding" I can even now feel "it" I feel I am sexy no matter what. It is just inside me. That feeling, that understanding. I have so much said to myself that I am sexy. Of course my mind will reject it but now it does not reject it anymore.

    Posted 6 months ago #

  12. Aschenisto
    Member

    I can still feel it I have it. I am sexy no matter what. :-)

    I do not anymore doubt myself. But I need to improve myself, be more social and so on. Everytime I go out I do not think I should have sex :D I think I should be social.

    Posted 5 months ago #

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