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DirtyHarry

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  • Started 7 months ago by DirtyHarry
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  1. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Hey guys!

    I found Cory

    Posted 7 months ago #
  2. MooMoo
    Member

    Looking forward to reading your stories :)

    Posted 7 months ago #
  3. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Tonight I was out again with some friends of mine and even though I was sober I had fun dancing. I

    Posted 6 months ago #
  4. DirtyHarry
    Member

    short update:

    still doing my affirmations consistently, bought new shoes and shirts and go to the gym frequently.

    was out yesterday had fun dancing and stuff but didn

    Posted 6 months ago #
  5. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Hey guys!

    Been out today again with a few friends of mine.

    Was just hangin around in the club not really dancing or having much fun, still women respond to me well, I think.

    But I still don

    Posted 5 months ago #
  6. ZheL
    Member

    I gotta say that affirmations aren't anything.

    And as I read some of your logs, I have to say that you really care that you get eyecontact or not.. You know it doesn't really matter!
    You have a life, you do what you want - stop thinking that something is wrong if you don't get any eyecontact with a girl you pass by..
    If your mindset was in the right zone.. you wouldn't think "I am doing something wrong?" or "Why do I not getting any eyecontact?"

    Damn.. I've been there.. and I remember it took soo much energy from me when I tried to seek something that I really shouldn't care about but let naturally happen.

    Another thing:
    You have to go out and meet new people and possibly connect to improve yourself as a person and more.

    It's not about women as cory says.. it's about you.. what do you want? find what you want and visualize it as a start and take action and get it!
    Nothing is impossible!

    - ZheL

    Posted 5 months ago #
  7. MooMoo
    Member

    I think a part of having success through mindset is giving up wanting. Wanting is not having. It's a lack of having. However there will be a period where you believe something, yet there is no physical result. When your mindset has changed inspite of reality being different to what you believe, then your mindset is strong enough to change reality. And when it comes to girls, it happens without effort.

    Posted 5 months ago #
  8. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Hey guys, thanks for your help, I really appreciate it.

    I think you

    Posted 5 months ago #
  9. TheRebel
    Member

    DirtyHarry, I'll try to answer your question to MooMoo.
    You are right when you said that you go out to have fun. Don't center on the idea that you are going out in order to have sex with a girl.
    It's like being outcome dependent if you think like that... I mean it's saying that "My night will only be complete if I take home a girl."

    I also have this problem though it is slowly being diminished because of doing the Magnetic Mindset.
    I developed that thinking due to being needy before. I'm also a routine based PUA before so I had the mindset that "I need to do this and this to get laid, and open and open women."

    What Magnetic Mindset teaches is that we are the fucking prize so we are the HB10.

    Posted 5 months ago #
  10. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Ok, thanks for your help, now I understood it.

    Don

    Posted 5 months ago #
  11. MooMoo
    Member

    E.g.

    Affirmation/goal, 'I get hot eye contact from girls'

    Affirm it, then whenever you don't get eye contact, or you feel something that opposes the belief, you basically say, 'it's ok'. Feel ok with whatever your reality is at present. When you are ok with whatever, you will let it go more and more as the days go by, doing your affirmation.

    When you go out, just go out to go out. Goal accomplished. No pressure.

    Posted 5 months ago #
  12. DirtyHarry
    Member

    I don´t know what happened to my thread around here, but I kept doing my affirmations for the last months but still I don´t see any results and I am really not that result orientated!

    I don´t know what exactly I am doing wrong? I´m a pretty tall guy (1,90m), in most opinions far better than decent looking guy, taking great care about himself. In the age of 19 I am in right now I have a great body in my opinion, having a sixpack and big muscles. I do a lot of codeofthenatural exercies to loose the muscles´ tension. I really did everything I could to be the best man that I can be in the last 6 months but it didn´t show any result. I don´t think its about my looks, because I think they are pretty good. But I don´t know what is wrong with me that women don´t respond well to me? I wear a lot of stylish clothes in my opinion and always try to improve my clothes. I just finished school with my graduation, so I am looking forward to study, so I think I seem to have a great future. Money isn´t the problem either. My parents have earned a lot of money with their jobs and we live in a really nice house and I drive my own great car in the age of 19. I earned more than 10k$ last year by myself with some online business. I think I am putting a lot of effort into becoming the best man that I can be but it doesn´t help me in concern of getting better with women. Just imagine I am 19 and I didn´t really make out with a girl, yet and just forget about sex it is so far out of my reality. I sometimes feel like girls think I am not sexual at all. And yes, I did alot of affirmations about my sexuality etc. I really try to work around all those things I think I can improve. But I still suck at being a ladies man. It´s so sad to do affirmations and cotn exercises every day for at least one hour and don´t see any acceptable results for 6 months. And I really did go out nearly every day to spend some time with my friends which is not really easy for me being someone who used to love spending time at home alone.

    Posted 2 months ago #
  13. Tdotguy
    Member

    The reasons u are not getting any results is you are wanting it , want leads to more want.When you are wanting something, you are actually pushing ur goals away , you have put the intention out there and really visualize the feels of having it (whatever that is you want)instead of wanting it. When you stop caring about getting results , the universe will give you everything that you desired in your heart, for affirmations to work you have to believe 100% percent in them , even if you have a ounce of doubt it wont work. So what you are not a ladies man , who cares , you have to believe in yourself and let things happen, stop wanting results , act as if you are already having a lot of woman in your life and i gaurentee in you you will have woman in your life. For me I used to think like you , but i really trained my self to not care , i am committed to the success not attached to the process, seriously i truly don't care if i get laid again, since my happiness matters most to me, so stop wanting shit and being tall and good looking wont help if you dont have strong inner game , i am personally about 6 feet 2 inches(1.90m) ,if you don't have a strong mindset to project that frame you are screwed , you are not getting woman, so train your self.
    Three reasons why you should be go out is :
    1) Have fun
    2) meet more people
    3) not want anything from woman or people in general
    When you train your mindset like this , everything will be handed to you and never pursue woman .For me i starting to have the mindset down.

    Posted 2 months ago #
  14. Aschenisto
    Member

    Damn, you should tell me about your online success..

    I want money too!

    Posted 2 months ago #
  15. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Guys i really respect you and love your unselifsh tips on this forum!

    But right now I´m totally disappointed not from Magnetic Mindset (done it strict for 6 months [haha 60 days challenge], but from life itself.

    I kept doing my affirmations, kept doing my Code of the natural exercises, kept working out .... etc.
    I´m still 1,90 m tall pretty good looking, having a nice tan, having a pretty big cock, having lots of money, having a good graduation, seeming to have a great future to offer a girl....

    + I have been out every fucking night in the last 13 days, having lots of fun with my friends but guess what no girl had sex with me, kissed me, touched me, had a connection with me etc.. Yeah I´m gonna keep doing the affirmations for 1 hour a day, keep trying everything I can to be the best man that I can be ..............................................
    In 2-3 years I´m going to be kissing a girl, that´s gonna be awesome!!! Maybe in 10 years I´m going to have sex with an ugly girl, I love it, my future is awesome!!!!

    Posted 2 months ago #
  16. spiralout1988
    Member

    dude ur fucking stupid. you are worrying. just know so you don't have to do anything about it. this shit comes naturally for you.. if you believe it. I've gotten back to doing my mirror affirmations and I feel great. And you know why? I continue to do the "I am fully satisfied" affirmation which keeps me mostly non needy all the time and it's working out well so far. Playing the waiting game or sitting back can be frustrating but this is teaching me patience. This program so far is helping me in all aspects of life.

    My other suggestion to you dirty harry is take up meditation and take it seriously. Clear your fucking head.

    Posted 2 months ago #
  17. Tdotguy
    Member

    I am from canada, i can feel your negative energy, so you don't have woman so who the fuck cares, woman wont make you happy , just live life and the woman will come, you are soo worried about getting woman, i am telling just go out and have fun , do your affirmation , just give up woman , and be in alignment that's all stop

    Posted 2 months ago #
  18. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Guys, this stuff is beginning to work for me!
    I kept working on my needyness and it finally showed some results, I´m a lot more calm what makes me much more the prize...

    I have been out every day the last weeks and it felt great, I´ve met new people and my friends were really passionate about meeting me.

    Yesterday I went eating with my parents at evening and we sat down facing two really beautiful girls sitting with their parents at a table. And guess what the girl who was as beautiful as I haven´t seen in like one year looked deeply in my eyes for more then 10 seconds, she was clearly into me, stroking her hair back. I was totally in the moment in that situation but this look of her gave me crushes all over my body it was unbelievable. Guys, I loved it and I´m gonna take every steps to experience some kind of connection again, it´s totally worth it. It was such a great connection, it literally nearly blow of my chair. Awesome!

    Tonight I was out again, some girls were qualifying themselves in front of me, that was great and I´m grateful for it. But I wasn´t interested in them to be honest. A friend of mine was celebrating his birthday and I didn´t care about women at all. Generally I´m just totally another man, thanks for this "I don´t care about any outcome" and the "I am totally satisfied affirmations!

    They did a great job!

    Right now I am taking great steps into the lifestyle I want to live!

    Posted 1 month ago #
  19. DirtyHarry
    Member

    Hey guys!

    I kept doing my affirmations and so on...

    I had great success even though I am still a virgin...

    Tonight I was out with a few of my really (what I thought) of my best friends. One of my best friends has a really beatufiul freind, I would call him a natural, he builds up easily a connection towards beatufiul women.... etc. etc. There was this beautiful girl and I talked to her etc. then he talked to her and was overwhelming, I don´t know how to descirbe it, even though he has a girlfriend she had a total crush on him...

    Not only him was showing his ability to get other girls tonight, but also I didnt feel like their REAL FRIEND tonight, I don´t know why. maybe I need to be on my own.

    Maybe sometimes I find one girl who loves me, I mean me having a great body, looking great, having a lot of money, having a great style, living healthy etc.. Don´t know what I am doing wrong right know.

    Maybe sometimes I will get to know a nice girl.

    Posted 1 week ago #
  20. DirtyHarry
    Member

    guys plz ignore the post i was officially drunk :D

    Posted 1 week ago #
  21. fengshui1
    Member

    Looool, saved and bookmarked 500 times for future re-reads! I know what your problem is. You get too drunk ;D

    Anyways, worry is just negative goal setting. So stop thinking about what you don´t want and start thinking about what you DO want. It´ll make you feel better. Either way, you get what you think about most of the time.

    Posted 1 week ago #

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