It is time to take control of your life and start living the way you want and having what you desire. Stop waiting for someone to hand you the purple pill that is going to turn you into a ladies’ man -it’s not going to happen. If you don’t get your shit together now no one is going to do it for you.
Stop postponing your life, stop sitting around complaining about what you don’t have, stop watching everyone else live their life, and go get it!
Start 2009 off right by putting yourself first. At the end of the day all we have is ourselves so why not put yourself first? Make this year all about you and what you want -that is what every ladies’ man does.
I have worked with all types of guys, and I know for a fact and believe that you and everyone else reading this have the potential to be great with women. But you have to believe it as well and start focusing on yourself becoming a sexy motherfucker.
New Year’s Resolution -sound familiar? I am sure it does. What probably comes to mind is to write a couple things down that you want to be different this year, get all excited about the new changes and tell everyone about what great things you’re doing different, and then a couple months into the year everything goes back to the way it was. Honestly, think about it. How many people do you know that say they want to get into great shape for their New Year’s resolution? A ton of people, and how many of them actually stick with it? Maybe 0.1%. That’s because getting into shape doesn’t happen overnight. Typically after someone has been working out for a couple months and they don’t see results they get discouraged and give up. One thing I can guarantee you is if you give up you will never have what you want. Here is a link to an inspiring video of a guy that did not give up. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v4uG2kSdd-4
Getting into great physical shape is kind of like becoming great with women and becoming great with women is kind of like becoming great with anything in life, and it all start with you and a vision of what you want for your life. It is a life style change and you must be consistent with it. It takes time, dedication, patience, and most of all belief in yourself. Here is something that you can do on your own to assure that this year is going to be different. I don’t care if you have done something similar to this or not, just do it and see what happens.
Take 15 minutes and sit down in a quiet place, close your eyes and spend some time reflecting on last year and then think about what you want to change this year, what do you want to be different and better. Let your mind run wild, it doesn’t have to be all about women, maybe it is your job. Maybe you can’t stand your boss. Think about what you want without limitations and then visualize yourself actually having it and living it. When you open your eyes start writing down your New Year’s resolutions. You don’t want to limit the number of things that you want to change or have. Anything is possible.
When you are doing this, be aware that your subconscious mind will try and hold you back. Maybe you say you want do date 2 girls because you don’t see how it is possible to date 5, or you say you want a 3 series BMW just because you can’t imagine having enough money to pay for a 7 series. Your mind bases things on your current perception of reality and that is based on your past memories. If you have never been around someone that has dated 5 girls at one time, or if you have never thought about the amount of money that you would need to purchase a 7 series BMW, then it is pretty hard to imagine what it would be like. It is very important to be aware of this so when it happens you can overcome it and let your imagination run wild.
After you have written down your list go back through and look through each one and ask yourself: is this for me or for someone else? If the answer is someone else then it needs to be eliminated off of your list because this year is all about you. If you talk to anyone that is great with women you will see that he is selfish -not in a bad way, but they do put themselves first. So you must remember if you want to be a ladies’ man then you must start thinking like one and acting like one.
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